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Name: Unique Etim.

#THE BEST WAYS TO ATTRACT MEN.

Well, currently UNN has been handed two weeks break by the administration to calm troubled waters. At least we have a short time to think out of our discipline box. I don't know how over flogged or cliche this topic appears, but trust me even if you are a prof. Of Love, you sure gonna get soaked in this article.
It looks as if its only for the ladies, but you see, a smart guy can't afford to ignore this, so you can read your ladies actions.
Trust me any lady that peruses this article will see even the UNSBA or LAWSA President dancing to her romantic drums.

For a woman it can be very hard to date.
Especially in this modern era where guys have so
much access to women via Skype, Facebook, Twitter and
other sources. As a dating consultant for both
men and women, I've heard both sides of the story.
My tips are meant to help you take control of your dating life and empower yourself as a woman.

1) BE PLAYFUL:
Guys love girls that they can joke around with. Most guys want girls who don't take themselves too seriously because this makes guys more comfortable. Start giving guys a few playful
punches to the arm, a tussling of the hair, a poke
in the waist, etc. Knowing how to playfully flirt and how to use a sarcastic tone well is very key in developing a fun personality that will cause guys to feel attraction for you. If you can take a
playful insult and maybe deliver a few playful
insults of your own, you'll be well on your way to
magnetize men.
The problem is that most women aren't willing to
take chances in this department. They're too
"lady-like" and "polite." Forget about all that.
Men love a woman who knows how to exude a
playful vibe. You know how humor is the way to
a woman's heart? Well it's the same for men.

2) SMELL GOOD:
Your breath and your perfume are absolutely
crucial. Bad breath on girls is probably one of the
biggest things that can completely turn off a man
and I've had a lot of prior experience. Body odour
is just as bad. Although it sounds cliched that I'm
telling you to keep your breath fresh and your
perfume handy, this is actually a very important
aspect of your hygiene that you need to MAKE
ABSOLUTELY SURE YOU CONTROL. I once met a
really cute girl in front of Ibiam hostel at UNEC, she was an ideal lady viewing her a distance away, but once I smelled her absolutely RANCID breath I just cringed and got out of that
situation.
You have a purse, so use it! Keep breath mints and gum handy, and furthermore always brush your teeth and tongue very well anytime you're about to meet a guy.

3) BE FEISTY:
Feisty girls are girls that don't let guys take control of them. Guys love what they can't have easily, and having a little bit of feisty attitude helps. Of course you've got to gauge the guy,
because there are some guys who absolutely hate
feistiness. Most of these guys have some kind of
issues with self-esteem or control, and thus,
probably not worth your time. Do not let him have what he wants ALL the time; instead show him that you are going to make some choices.
However, DO NOT be domineering or try to be the boss (unless your guy is into that). Men need a certain level of control and they need to validate themselves as manly men. So to emasculate him would not be a good way to make him think
you're a keeper.

4) LOOK GOOD:
Guys are very unlike girls. A majority of our
attraction comes from how a girl looks. Some of
you may be thinking, "But what if I don't already
look good?"
There's hope for you ladies. Unlike guys, you have
makeup and clothes that help A LOT. I've seen
time and time again that makeup can completely
reinvent a person's look. Invest a little money and
time on learning how to dress well + plus look
good. Get that gym membership and start dieting
if you're not happy with your body. Essentially
what I'm asking you to do is become the best
you that you can be. Even if you weren't born a
super model, you can still improve your
appearance a lot.
Especially in this modern "Instagram" era, a nice
butt can make a guy go crazy. I know plenty of
my guy friends that will assign higher value to a
girl that has an amazing ass. Keep that in mind.

5) TEACH / SHOW HIM SOMETHING:
It is very attractive if a girl can teach something
well, especially if it's something that may interest
us. For example, if you can teach a musical
instrument, an art (like painting or photography),
or a sport (think female-oriented sports like tennis
and volleyball). This also allows for you two to
have a new mutual interest and mutual activity. If
you don't have anything that you could teach, you
also should think about evaluating your life. Do
you have a well-balanced life full of interesting
things or are you boring and one-dimensional?
When I date a girl that can open up my horizons
that is very attractive. If you're the type of girl
that doesn't have many interests or hobbies, then
you need to start expanding your world. Ask
yourself, "What are my interests?" and "Do I have
any interesting hobbies?" The more of these
activities that you have the more you'll be able to teach.

6) BE INTERESTING:
Men can't be expected to always keep a
conversation going, so you're going to have to
spur the conversation. Have a few interesting
topics to talk about. This also goes back into
where I told you to expand your horizons. When a
woman can be incredibly interesting, men will be
attracted despite what the woman looks like.
Being interesting also includes your lifestyle.
Having more interests and being a well-rounded
person will help you to be more interesting and
therefore help you to attract men.
It's also very attractive when the girl I'm talking
to loves a few "guy" things, such as sports or
video games. If you can hold your own in those
activities you will attract tons more men.

7) PLAY A LITTLE HARD TO GET:
As mentioned prior, men love what they can't
have. So when you display to him that you have
several options, then this really makes him want
you. This is akin to playing hard-to-get, however,
you do need to show interest because many men
will move on if they don't feel like they've planted
a seed of interest in you. This means flirt with
him, but also let him know that you have other
men in your life that can easily sweep you away if
he doesn't act.

8) DON'T CONGREGATE IN CROWDS:
This tip is mostly for the ladies that like to go
clubbing a lot to find men. If you want to be
approachable, don't go with too many other
women. Being with 3 girls or with some guy-
friends makes it very nerve-racking for guys to
approach. Guys love to approach 2-women
groups and single people especially. If you do go with a
few friends, make sure you have time to separate
yourself and maybe go chill by the bar for a little
bit. Or just sit down somewhere by yourself or
with 1 girlfriend for a little bit.

9) INITIATE:
Don't be afraid to make a move on guys.
Although I usually don't recommend it, there are
some guys out there that are shy and need a
pretty big sign before they start making the move.
The best way to let a guy know that you are interested is to ASK HIM if he wants to hang out. You don't need to make it
a big deal or call it a date. Just ask him if he
wants to go get some lunch or a coffee and get
to know him. Men believe that it is very
"refreshing" when women ask them out. However,
if you really can't initiate it, or are too shy, you
should give him an opportunity to ask you out.
For example, telling him that you are really bored
or telling him you can't wait to see a certain
movie.

10) BE BUBBLY:
Laughing a lot, making cute expressions, and
being the life of the party are surefire ways to get
noticed by guys. Being bubbly also helps present
your personality as a warm, friendly, very nice
person, which is extremely attractive. You
probably know a few girlfriends that are the
definition of "bubbly."
It's also been shown that heightening the pitch of
your voice is more attractive subconsciously to
men. Other girls may call you "annoying" or "fake"
when you do this, but don't worry about the
haters. Many women even subconsciously will
heighten their pitch without knowing it, as it
definitely makes them appear more bubbly.
A cute smile really goes a long way. That's why
girls like INI Edo, Omotola, etc. are so well received by men.
Just look at that sexy smile.
Think of it this way. You're the girl who is always
happy and always wants to make other people
feel good. You are very social, talkative, sweet
people that just immensely brighten up people's
days. Be that girl and you will find yourself with a
lot of options in the man department.

Wow... You read all that? Mheeen, u can go exude what u grabbed, Good luck!!!